Sometimes life has a way of
reminding you of what's
really important,
and it's typically not
what you think it is.
I know for certain this week
that it's not the stress I'm
feeling as I prepare for
both of my barn shows this
weekend, or the
inconvenience of losing
my pickup truck to an
unfortunate accident.
They're minor issues
when I look at the big
picture.
My friend's husband passed
away last week, and so I'm reminded
that life is short, and that
instead of sweating the small stuff,
I should be happy for it,
because it means my
life is moving along as I
want it; happy, healthy
and blessed.
Steve was someone I saw
infrequently, around town,
at an occasional
happy hour, and at
my Christmas party every year.
But he was also a big fan
of my barn shows and it was
not uncommon for me to turn around
at some point and see him
standing there, taking it all in,
and then quietly ask questions as to
where I found things, why I buy
what I do, how impressed he was,
etc., etc.
He was also a reader of
this blog, and would always
comment on a post or two I had
written, and mention
how much he enjoyed
my musical play list.
It saddens me to no end,thinking
about my friend, Lori, now a young
widow left to finish raising
their beautiful daughters
without him,
and also, selfishly, knowing
there is one less person out there
reading my words and quietly
cheering me on in my
pursuit of happiness.
Rest in peace, Steve.